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Lesson 129 / Relationships & choices

Promises and friendship.

5 phrases · 12 minutes · Look, listen and try.

Talk about promises, rebuilding trust and changes in friendship.

After this lesson, you can

  • Use this lesson’s expressions to talk about the situation introduced above.
  • Distinguish “go against” and “go back on” in context.
  • Use “win back” in a sentence connected to your own situation.
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Mây points out that leaving paper litter on the ground conflicts with the clean-garden rule.
Mây points out that leaving paper litter on the ground conflicts with the clean-garden rule.

go against

Leaving litter goes against the club’s rules.

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Leaving litter goes against the club’s rules.

She would not go against the group’s decision.

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She would not go against the group’s decision.

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Conflict with a rule or wish

go against somethinggo against someone’s wishes

Used when an action conflicts with a rule or wish. The past of “go” is “went”.

Cambridge Dictionary · go against

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Mây is disappointed when a friend who promised to help with the plants goes off to play instead.
Mây is disappointed when a friend who promised to help with the plants goes off to play instead.

go back on

Her friend went back on a promise to help.

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Her friend went back on a promise to help.

Please do not go back on your word.

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Please do not go back on your word.

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Fail to keep a promise

go back on a promisego back on your word

Keep both “back on”. It emphasises failing to fulfil an earlier promise.

Cambridge Dictionary · go back on

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The friend reliably returns to help with the plants over three sessions, gradually winning back Mây’s trust.
The friend reliably returns to help with the plants over three sessions, gradually winning back Mây’s trust.

win back

Her friend worked hard to win back her trust.

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Her friend worked hard to win back her trust.

Keeping our promises can help us win trust back.

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Keeping our promises can help us win trust back.

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Regain something through effort

win back somethingwin something back

“Back” indicates something was previously held and lost. With a pronoun: “win it back”.

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Mây and a friend become less close as they spend time on different interests.
Mây and a friend become less close as they spend time on different interests.

grow apart

They grew apart after joining different clubs.

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They grew apart after joining different clubs.

Old friends sometimes grow apart as their interests change.

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Old friends sometimes grow apart as their interests change.

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Become less close over time

grow apartgrow apart from someone

Emphasises gradual change in a relationship, not necessarily an argument. The past is “grew”.

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Mây and a friend leave a general craft group and form their own gardening club.
Mây and a friend leave a general craft group and form their own gardening club.

break away

A few members broke away to form a new club.

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A few members broke away to form a new club.

They broke away from the larger group.

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They broke away from the larger group.

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Leave a group to act independently

break awaybreak away from a group

Emphasises leaving a group or organisation to become independent. Use “from” before the former group.

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The examples were written for this course. Usage was checked against Matt Errey’s book, pages 54, 55, 139, 57, 13. A2–B1 is the course’s intended level.

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A conversation in context

Read the conversation and find the expressions you have learned.

  1. Mai

    I do not want to go back on my promise to help.

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    I do not want to go back on my promise to help.

  2. Alex

    Then suggest a plan that does not go against your other commitments.

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    Then suggest a plan that does not go against your other commitments.

  3. Mai

    I hope that will help me win back their trust.

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    I hope that will help me win back their trust.

Compare the uses

go against / go back on

“Go against” conflicts with something such as principles or wishes; “go back on” breaks a promise. Disagreeing with an idea does not necessarily break a promise.

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A situation to apply what you have learned

A helper promised to attend an event. Cancelling would break that promise, but another plan would conflict with her principles.

  1. Describe breaking the promise.

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    She would be going back on her promise.

    “Would be going back on her promise” describes what cancelling would mean, without claiming cancellation has occurred.

  2. Complete: That alternative goes ___ my principles.

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    against

    “Goes against my principles” conflicts with those principles; “against” introduces the standard being violated.

  3. Write a message seeking a workable solution.

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    I want to keep my promise without going against my principles.

    The message preserves both the wish to keep the promise and the principles, without claiming a solution is already found.

The usage comparisons are checked against the Cambridge Dictionary entries linked beside the compared expressions. The additional conversations and exercises are written for this course.

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