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Lesson 88 / Emotions & friends

Taking care of feelings.

5 phrases · 12 minutes · Look, listen and try.

Talk about feeling down, accept support and take a small mistake more lightly.

After this lesson, you can

  • Use this lesson’s expressions to talk about the situation introduced above.
  • Distinguish “get down” and “lean on” in context.
  • Use “perk up” in a sentence connected to your own situation.
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Mây looks sadly at a broken paper model, with lowered shoulders and downcast eyes.
Mây looks sadly at a broken paper model, with lowered shoulders and downcast eyes.

get down

The broken model got me down at first.

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The broken model got me down at first.

Do not let one small mistake get you down.

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Do not let one small mistake get you down.

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Make someone feel sad or discouraged

get someone down

Put the person feeling sad between “get” and “down”. In this sense it does not mean bending or sitting down; the past form is “got”.

Cambridge Dictionary · get down

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Mây shares her worries with a friend beside her, who listens carefully and offers support.
Mây shares her worries with a friend beside her, who listens carefully and offers support.

lean on

You can lean on a friend when you feel worried.

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You can lean on a friend when you feel worried.

I leaned on my sister during that difficult week.

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I leaned on my sister during that difficult week.

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Rely on someone for emotional support

lean on someone

Here this means receiving emotional support, rather than simply resting your weight on someone’s shoulder. It can be close in meaning to “rely on”.

Cambridge Dictionary · lean on

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Mây brightens and sits more upright when a friend arrives to play with the repaired model.
Mây brightens and sits more upright when a friend arrives to play with the repaired model.

perk up

She perked up when her friend arrived.

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She perked up when her friend arrived.

A short walk helped me perk up.

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A short walk helped me perk up.

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Become more cheerful or lively

perk upperk someone up

This often describes becoming brighter after feeling sad, tired or uninterested. It can be used without an object.

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Mây looks at a small smudge on a card and laughs gently, no longer overly concerned.
Mây looks at a small smudge on a card and laughs gently, no longer overly concerned.

laugh off

I laughed off the little mistake and tried again.

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I laughed off the little mistake and tried again.

She laughed the mix-up off because no one was hurt.

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She laughed the mix-up off because no one was hurt.

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Treat a minor problem lightly by laughing

laugh off somethinglaugh something off

This can describe taking a minor issue less seriously. It should not imply dismissing another person’s feelings or ignoring a serious mistake.

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Mây relaxes her shoulders, smiles and continues making the card after worrying too much.
Mây relaxes her shoulders, smiles and continues making the card after worrying too much.

lighten up

I was taking the game too seriously, so I tried to lighten up.

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I was taking the game too seriously, so I tried to lighten up.

A friendly joke helped everyone lighten up.

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A friendly joke helped everyone lighten up.

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Become less tense or serious

lighten up

An informal way to describe becoming less tense or serious. Saying “Lighten up!” directly to someone who is upset can sound unsympathetic.

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The examples were written for this course. Usage was checked against Matt Errey’s book, pages 50, 77, 96, 76, 79. A2–B1 is the course’s intended level.

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A conversation in context

Read the conversation and find the expressions you have learned.

  1. Mai

    The delays are getting me down.

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    The delays are getting me down.

  2. Alex

    You can lean on us when things are difficult.

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    You can lean on us when things are difficult.

  3. Mai

    Thanks. Talking about it has helped me perk up.

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    Thanks. Talking about it has helped me perk up.

Compare the uses

get down / lean on

“Get someone down” means make them sad or discouraged; here “lean on” means rely on someone for support. It can also mean pressure someone, so context matters.

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A situation to apply what you have learned

Repeated cancellations discourage a volunteer. Her friends offer support without pressuring her to continue immediately.

  1. Describe the effect of cancellations.

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    The cancellations are getting her down.

    Repeated cancellations discourage the volunteer: “getting her down”, with “her” in the middle.

  2. Complete: You can lean ___ us for support.

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    on

    “Lean on us for support” offers the friends’ help; “on” introduces those providing support.

  3. Write a supportive response.

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    You can lean on us and take time before deciding what to do next.

    The reply offers support and decision time without demanding an immediate return to the activity.

The usage comparisons are checked against the Cambridge Dictionary entries linked beside the compared expressions. The additional conversations and exercises are written for this course.

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